Are You Masturbating Wrong?
Your favorite technique could be sabotaging your sex life
Your technique of masturbating You find a style that works for you and then you get used to it. But your favorite technique can become problematic during intercourse.
You may be so conditioned to some way of masturbating that if your partner doesn't touch you in a certain way during sex, you may not be able to orgasm. You may experience delayed ejaculation or you may face erectile dysfunction.
The name we define this is peculiar masturbation or traumatic masturbation.
What is Unique Masturbation?
We can define idiosyncratic masturbation as the practice of self-made masturbation that cannot be easily repeated during sex with a partner.
The pressure, slipperiness, rhythm of movements and which penile areas are more stimulated are up to the person's choice during masturbation. .
Think about how you first learned to masturbate. For example, you may have discovered that lying face down and rubbing your penis vigorously against your bed feels really good.
But once you get used to such a particular sensation, you may not get the same amount of pleasure with your partner. this can bring sexual compatibility problems afterward.
How Private Masturbation Can Hurt Your Sex Life
- Prolonged ejaculation time is the most common problem.
- inability to enjoy sex
- Misconception about the partner with the idea that the vagina is wide
- Desire for anal intercourse with the idea that the vagina is wide
- Loss of erection and decrease in penile pressure due to less stimulation from the penis during vaginal sex.
You may feel bad as a result of all this.
What Can You Do About Wrong Masturbation?
If you have a unique masturbation style and you know it doesn't work well during sex,
If you can't get help from a specialist, take a break from masturbation and sex, this will allow you to forget your current source of stress.
Forgetting is actually a protective mechanism for brain and mental health.
So, how long do you have to wait? It varies from person to person. A period of around 3 months is sufficient if the person does not have any other problems.
If you tell your partner the easiest ways to get pleasure during sex, you will make sexual compatibility a little easier.
When should I go to a urologist?
After months of waiting, nothing has changed? You should go to a specialist now, in fact, it is more important to go as soon as you feel the problem. Because in sexual problems, the problem usually grows as it waits and brings other problems behind it.
The specialist can mediate other problems that you are not aware of or that you cannot express to your partner or your partner. Improving couple communication will have increased your sexual knowledge
The most important issue is that the couple should deal with the problem together. Then all the problems are solved
